How and Not Always Where.

Even the most seasoned lovers come upon a dry spell or two from time to time. Especially this time of year, the busy Christmas season approaching it's easy to loose the great sex life as stress can be a love life killer.

I could suggest buying a vibrator but that's not the route I'm talking about.. Great sex is so much more then “stick it and click it” from a vibrator, involving the whole mind and psyche is the true road to spectacular sex.

"To discover real-world sex tips, read the blog of a sex educator. Professionals know what it takes for the body and mind to flow together into full seduction, instead of offering up simple sex tips like “lick the nipples”, they offer complete stories, perspectives and specific examples putting their ideas in motion. An example of an excellent tip complete with guide for the mind."

Another side benefit of reading such long winded stories? It's kind of arousing so the body prepares itself for hot sex without you needing to touch yourself first. Again it proves arose of the mind is one of the most important steps for better sex.This is different instead of telling you WHERE to do it, I'm giving you ideas on HOW to do it. Sometimes a refresher is a good thing!

This year, skip the Cosmo sex tips and go for what a professional has to say. Why not make that your new years resolution? It's a fun one (much more fun then weight loss resolutions anyway!) Have a Merry Christmas!

Sex in the air : half-mile high club.

How are you going to pull this one off? It may be a little difficult because most hot air balloon rides must be conducted by a "driver".


Of course you could always get hot air balloon lessons and rent one yourself, or if you have deep pockets, why not buy one? They can easily be stashed away in one of your sheds when not in use and the basket can be used as a great storage bin for Christmas decorations.


Having sex in a hot air balloon is something our of this wild, it's like creating your very own mike high club. It may be difficult to achieve but the work is worth the payoff. Think of it this way, you climb up a waterside is long just to slide down for a few seconds.


This is the same, lots of work put into the idea, but having sex in a hot air balloon really should be a goal to achieve. The most amazing experience ever. It is erotic, sensual, intimate, fun, kinky and playful all at the same time. The best place to have sex for people who have done it everywhere else. Or you can just read about it in this steamy sexual fantasy novel from Smashwords.


Instead of taking fling lessons and buying your own equipment, maybe you can hire someone. Just tell them that you are going to have sex in the balloon and see if they mind. After enough phone calls, I'm sure you'll be able to find someone who won't mind the dirty deed being done in their balloon and in front of them!

Have Sex Underwater

Sex here is so very naughty. I most recommend having sex in the ocean, in the water far from the beach. When the water is up to your neck. Imagine this:

There are people splashing and playing in the water at the beach, the sun us hot, the ocean surf is rushing against your neck. The chill of the water in conjunction with the heat of the sun is like an erotic lover nipping at your neck.

It's just you and your lover. The water acts as natural lubricant, you rub against each other with no friction at all. easy and erotic. Bring along a trusty realistic cock because they are always waterproof, try www.theadulttoyshop.com Vibrators can leak but a dildo will never leak.

You finger each other under the water. No one can see, no one can hear your moans because the ocean surf is too loud. But you are in plain sight, in the open, in front of everyone!

The best sexual position for underwater sex is for him to stand and her to be straddles. He holds her butt and uses this to thrust as needed. He controls the action. If you both as lose to the same size, you can jump up and down on his erection and allow to motion of the water to thrust you up and down. It's like having sex in zero G's. Try using a rubber butt plug under water too from www.theadulttoyshop.com, it's much cleaner then on dry land.

Another sex position you can try is for him to stand and to simulate doggie style but she will be floating in the water. He has to hand in to her hips so she doesn't not float away! The only problem with this position is that from the beach when people look out at you, it's fairly obvious what you are doing, whereas the other sexual positions are more discreet and from the onlooker, it appears that you two are just embracing.

A tip for more comfort is to bring out some silicone lubrication. This amazing liquid does not float away under water. It will allow you to glide much quicker and easier. It can be used for foreplay and with sex.

A few cautions however, watch for snorkels who want to have a peek at the action, watch for jelly fish and sharks, but hey - if this is your time to go, what a great time to check out!

Sex with a doll.

Who has sex with a sex doll. Really, do men actually do this?

Before I begin my rant, there are two types of sex dolls, one is more fine then the other. The really expensive sex dolls are a different story. Although still strange, at least they have mannequin heads and are somewhat realistic. If you have a big imagination, you might be able to believe that you are actually having sex with a real woman.

Some of these life like sex dolls are so damn real that if you turn out the light,s you can imagine the sex is real. It's because the pussy and ass are life like the same material that sex toys for men are made of. You can run your fingers through they hair and do her in any positions you want.

That's not what I'm talking if here. I am speaking of the cheap sex dolls that are super basic, the ones where no matter how good yuor imagination, you can't bring yourself to imagine you are having sex with a real women.

I'm led to be live that men who have sex with a sex doll are not really wanting it to be real, otherwise they would dish out the hundreds of dollars for a real sex doll or maybe a prostitute.

Maybe they do not want the sex doll to be real, maybe they want to strange feel of a plastic doll.

That would not surprise me at all. I've seen really strange fetishes before and I would conclude that men that have sexual intercourse with a cheap sex doll with a printed face are doing it out of a fetish desire.

If that's the case, I'm not supposed to that. I would not mind seeing this occur, I'm pretty curious what it would look like.

In the end I can no longer make fun of men who have sex with a plastic doll because it's juts a fetish. You know another reason why I know it's a fetish? It's because if men really want sex, they would reach for some adult toys in the form of a pocket pal or masturbation sleeve. These sex toys are realistic and would offer better sex then a sex doll ever could.

There we go. I have shown that men who have sex with dolls do not do it our of necessity but out of a fetish desire. They want that and that' okay because that's the last thing that anyone could ever or should ever do is to say that someone's fetish is wrong because we all respond sexually to different things.

Have Sex In Front of a Mirror

A great place to have great sex is in front of a mirror! This is a sensual and very passionate idea for couples wanting to spice it up a bit, but want to keep it in the house. Having sex in front of a mirror allows both partners to see a lot more of each other, which in turn will create more arousal for both!

Watching yourself and your partner will show you not only what you look like, but will help your creativity. You will be more willing to move in different, more erotic positions, and will increase your craving for erotic touches and pleasing maneuvers!

You can have sex in front of a mirror with the lights on, and then try it again with only candle light. You will see yourself and your partner in two different lights, which will make a big difference in your mood! Chances are the candle light will be hotter and more spicy!

This is a fun little way of sharing intimacy with your partner in a new and sensual way. Enjoy your hot mirror sex, and mix it up a little. Instead of always standing, try sitting on a dresser in front of a mirror, or on the bathroom counter in front of the mirror!

Sneak It In A Parking Lot

A great place to have a quickie is in a parkade or parking lot. Typically it should be a multi-story car park so there are plenty places to hide. Find a quiet spot in the parking lot at the local mall, and go at it! There may be video cameras and there may not be, but this is just part of the rush!

I would be careful though, it could be a bad picture if you get caught, and the police could get involved, so if you are uncertain of video surveillance maybe stay away from this one.

However, if you are down for the dirty deed, then a parking lot can be a big rush! There are many concrete pillars and stair wells that make great sneaky spots, perfect for a quick poke! Don't make it a full on sweat session, keep it quick and simple. It is easier if you wear a skirt and he wears easy to open and looser shorts or pants.

If you have a car, you can always have sex in the car in the parking lot. Drive to a safer spot with minimal people, and turn off the engine. Turn off the lights and put on some tunes. Don't turn up the volume too much or you will get caught!

Sex in a parking lot is exhilarating, fun and daring! Enjoy your sneaky sex sessions and good luck!

Have Sex in a Closet

When I say have sex in a closet, I am speaking of a small square shaped walk in closet, maybe about 3 feet by 3 feet. The goal here is to make it closed quarters, it forces you two to be close and intimate.


You will constantly have your hand on each other and be touching skin to skin for the entire duration because the lack of space prevents you from pulling away!


Remember your teenage parties when you played 7 minute of heaven and had to kiss a partners in the closet? This is the same premise but it's the grown up version. This time, you are a little kinkier.


If the closet is too small for intercourse, there are a few options you could try. First, try standing up sex if your respective heights allow for this. secondly, if you cannot penetrate, then bring in some sex toys to accompany you, it's not exactly sex, but you can re-create it no problem.

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You know what else is great about this? Your partner (or you) can't wither away and move away from the intense pleasure. You are forced to take it all!

Here's an exciting idea. If you want to feel a surprisingly strong erection, take a penis pump with you. Pump the penis in the dark and then get her to touch it. Your erection will be so strong that she will drop her jaw... to do what? You can guess! Learn the basics of a penis pump and consider the Precision pump from penispumpwarehouse.com becuase it's very portable and small and it works quickly. Don't get excited about having a bigger dick becuase they won't make it bigger forever but every time you pump it will get huge.


When you think about it, for the reasons mentioned above, sex in a closet is ultra kinky. Another nice feature is the clothing that hangs allowing you to rest against it as a form of padding. Also the clothes prevent the skin from touching the cold wall and ruining the mood.


Comfortable warm and kinky, now that's a great sex idea!